Showing posts with label childhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label childhood. Show all posts

Sunday, April 7, 2013

Saturday Exploring





Some of my most vivid memories come from the time before I could drive. Life seemed at a slower pace then, and in the lack of a hurry I could really pay attention to little details.


Here's something an adult might miss--do you see the beginning of a trail in the next picture below? There's one behind the basketball court, though I was never allowed to walk it (because it would have me leave the park) as a kid. Sometimes I sneaked away with friends, though.

Yesterday, just being here brought back memories so vividly: of looking for different public benches and bleachers to sit an read The Bell Jar one summer. (ANGST!) Of hot days between high school grades where we came home smelling like hose water from so many water fights.


So I took the trail, for old time's sake.


It leads to a cemetery. I don't know why we were always to desperate to get here as kids. We'd just walk through, then leave.





This was such an uncanny sight:


New graves. New residents of the cemetery all the time. Life is short and it will definitely end. Hm.

(I blotted out the headstone names out of respect to the families.)

I did lighten up this weekend, too! Moved on from solitude and reflection and got social.

Got a sorta-work, but mostly social lunch at the Hummingbird Restaurant in Trenton. Delicious Jamaican food at a reasonable price? Count me in.




(It may be worth noting that there were no options for strict vegetarians--I got fish and chips, like I sometimes do. But if you really, truly don't eat animals... I hope you are happy with a huge order of plaintains.)

We are finally getting spring weather and it's done wonder for my mood. Time to whip up a huge bowl of guacamole for a co-op event!

Saturday, April 6, 2013

BINGO!

My friend's cousin's 7th grade class (you got that?) hosted a BINGO fund raiser, so I was happy to contribute some dolares and play some games. Hey, I'll try anything once.




Ahh, the world of Catholic elementary school BINGO.

I know the small parochial school I went to largely kept afloat by this fund raiser, but it's still so strange to be on this side of things.





I remember getting to lunch and smelling cigarette smoke hanging in the air. The tables and chairs were sprinkled with clear BINGO chips of every color of the rainbow. I'm sure our teachers told us not to, but we'd scavenge high and low, collecting those forgotten BINGO chips as if we were on an Easter Egg hunt. We'd spread them across our lunch tables like jewels, then trade them like Pogs. (The '90s were such a special time.)

Back to last night: Instead of cash prizes, winners got their choice of candy. When I won (and oh yes, I did win once!) I asked if I could have coffee for my prize. The answer was YES! And that choice reminds me that I really have grown up, after all.